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Lagging Skills Area 1: Safety


It can be difficult to understand why your child feels unsafe, even when they aren’t in any real danger. Watch this video to learn about lagging skills in the area of safety. Listen for examples or explanations that you feel might be at the root of your child’s meltdowns.

Time stamps:

[0:58]: how this might effect child who senses high emotions]

[1:35]: why my child melts downs when I say “What are you doing?!”

[2:15] one example of what I can teach my child

Don't worry about remembering every example and possibility. Just take note of the specific skills that seem to describe your child or otherwise resonate with you. 

Mini-Training: Why is My Child Melting Down?


If you haven't yet accessed the mini-training where I walk you through 5 steps to understanding why your child is melting down, I highly recommend it! It will help put this video into context. 😊

You can access that mini-training and cheatsheet by clicking here.

Ready to take the next step towards being empowered?

Congratulations on taking the first step towards understanding your child's meltdowns! Now that you have gained valuable insights, the next step is to equip yourself with the right tools to navigate these challenging situations.

As a mother, I understand how overwhelming and stressful it can be to deal with meltdowns, and I'm here to help. Whether you need to learn how to control your own emotions or teach your child how to manage theirs, I've got you covered.

You have two options to choose from:


Book a FREE 15-minute Discovery Call with me where I will provide you with a new tool to help you stay calm during meltdowns, or offer guidance on how to help your child learn emotional regulation. No commitments required, and I'm here to support you every step of the way. Click here to book your call.


Consider joining the Confidently Momming Kids with Big Emotions Membership - an affordable monthly subscription that gives you instant access to videos, an online community, and group coaching. You'll gain the knowledge, tools, and support you need to transform from feeling frustrated and overwhelmed to calm and confident, all while cultivating self-compassion. Click here to learn more.

Click on either link to take advantage of these options and start your journey towards empowered and confident motherhood.

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